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Grand Theft Auto 4 Walkthrough and Guide

by Michael Monette  

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Grand Theft Auto 4 Guide - Dating

As you progress through the story, Niko will be able to wine and dine with a number of Liberty City women. Dating is much like hanging out with friends in that each girl has their own preferable activities. Conversely though, Niko's choice of wardrobe and vehicular transport will also affect whether or not his date has a good time.

Both Michelle and Kate like Niko for who he is, so wearing something upscale (i.e., anything not from the Russian clothes store) and showing up in a flashy ride is typically to be avoided when dealing with either of them. Since Kate and Michelle are fairly easy to please and only pertain to the storyline, they won't be covered here.

There are three other girls that Niko can meet and date via the and websites. Dating these girls is not a requirement to attain the 100% game completion stat, however each has a special ability that is unlocked once they like you enough. This feature is available after the “Out of the Closet” mission in Brucie's mission line.

After requesting a date, you'll have to wait awhile (a week or more) for a reply. The e-mail will contain a time and meeting place. Reply to the e-mail to trigger the appointment, and be sure to show up on time. After the initial date, you can then collect the girl's phone number so you can call and set up additional dates. As with friends, each girl is only awake for a certain number of hours, and calling them while they're sleeping or busy will negatively affect the relationship. After a couple of successful outings, “try your luck” when dropping the date off and if she accepts you will later get a phone call from her, unlocking the special ability.


Kiki can be dated via the Lovemeet website. Her online username is “LawChick.” Kiki is quite easy to please; she prefers clothes from the Russian shop and downscale cars. Her favorite activities are eating, bowling, darts, and pool. Do not take her drinking or to any shows. She is available from 6am to 2am.

Special Ability: Lower Wanted Level - Call Kiki to have her lower your current wanted level by three stars.


View Carmen's profile on the Lovemeet website, username “SoBoHo,” and request a date with her. She seems to like flashy clothes (from Perseus) and mid-level cars. Do not wear anything from the Russian clothes shop. Her favorite activities are drinking, going to shows (strip clubs included), and darts. She is awake between 1pm and 6am.

Special Ability: Health Boost - Call Carmen to restore some health.


Alex can be dated via the Crap List ( website. Check out the “women seeking men” section under CRAP personals, scroll down and (despite your better judgment) click on the “Party girl seeks man for NSA fun and blog material - 29 (Lancaster)” post. Click the “Contact Me” link to request a date. Alex only likes clothes from Perseus and upscale cars (Turismo, SuperGT, etc). She prefers expensive restaurants, shows (strip clubs included), darts, bowling and pool. She is available from 6am to 2am.

Special Ability: Perseus Discount - Get a 50% discount on clothes bought from Perseus.


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Nov 24th 2015 Guest
How do u have more then one girlfriend
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Mar 22nd 2015 Guest
i asked about a cheat code not for the story
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Feb 28th 2015 Guest
how to go into michelle's house
ID #522398
Oct 28th 2015 Guest
Really frick you
ID #620439
Feb 18th 2015 Guest
How do u go on love meet to get Kate
ID #517550
May 29th 2016 Guest
Go to the internet cafe and go to a computer, click on love meet and look for her name.
ID #655174
Feb 12th 2015 Guest
How do u dump Mitchell she does my head in!!??
ID #514972
Jan 1st 2015 Guest
I know kate im the the game im going to hunt u in your dream when I get out of jail hehehe
ID #494243
Dec 30th 2014 Guest

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Feb 14th 2016 Guest
Do you know Joshua
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Nov 21st 2014 Guest
The right thing to do is keep Roman cuz he is family an plus if Roman dies Kate blames you for it and doesn't dates you anymore. So keep your cousin let the girl go.
ID #474282
Nov 2nd 2014 Guest
Mitchell dumps you and your a free man you can go out with who you want but Kate still calls me with a ghost which is weird because she's dead and I'm dating Alex
ID #466488
Oct 9th 2014 Guest
GTA 4 is way better than GTA5. GTA5 is a giant waste of money and even less waste of time, because you will drop the game within 10 hours or less once you get to Spoiler:
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which takes at least 5 hours to complete. Trust me, save your money.
ID #456405
May 31st 2014 Guest
This game lame I like grand theft auto 5 better
ID #391815
Dec 27th 2013 Guest
Who is Mitch???
ID #334905
Sep 3rd 2013 Guest
How do u marry Alex
ID #308047
Aug 14th 2013 Guest
i dont think u can marry any1
u can only date
ID #304839
Aug 10th 2013 Guest
I think I'm going to do revenge. Kate never even really thinks of you as a boyfriend anyways. I think keeping Roman alive is better. He DID just get married and his wife is pregnant. Roman is also your cousin. So do revenge. You'll make plenty of money elsewhere. Family first.
ID #303998
Jul 25th 2013 Guest
hey guys i did the deal with dimitrie then with outt i think u shouldnt do it cuz then if u do then roman dies and his wife is havinng a baby and then the baby wont have a father so take my advice
ID #300253
Jun 24th 2013 Guest
i need help with those three girls after I finis killing D And P I don't know what to do now plus help me
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ID #267312
Jan 25th 2013 Guest
Thanks for the tips
ID #246268
Jan 2nd 2013 Guest
i have mitch and i gonna date carmen should i kill mitch?
ID #234637
Dec 23rd 2012 Guest
How do you find Alex it doesn't have that link
ID #227255
Oct 3rd 2012 Guest
I just use cheats so I don't need any of them[color=red][/color]
ID #191303
Jun 25th 2012 Guest
How do i get kiki back after i ran her over
ID #156858
Jun 22nd 2012 bmsh123
Can I date on Episodes from liberty City??
ID #155554
May 26th 2012 Guest
what are the benefits of dating kiki ? (lawchick)
ID #145567
Apr 12th 2012 Guest
How do you go on your date with French tom
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Apr 12th 2012 Guest
I tried to go on a date with Alex but I was late, now when I check nothing shows up. Any tips please.
ID #132651
May 16th 2016 Guest
Don't save
ID #652674
Apr 7th 2012 Guest
If you kill dywane you lose all contact with playboy and he has beef with you for it. if you kill playboy you and dyane become friends and you get playboys house.
ID #130738
Mar 23rd 2012 Guest
Save the game twice when you do the revenge/deal mission. That way you finish the story line two times. :D
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Feb 16th 2012 j3ffhardyfan
if you do reaving kate dies but if she calls you its is her ghost[color=blue]
ID #115542
Feb 5th 2012 Guest
How do I date alex
ID #112363
Jan 27th 2012 Guest
SoHoe and LawChick are datable on the internet in the internet cafe. Where does Sohoe live? I cant get there in time.
ID #109800
Jan 21st 2012 Guest
how do i marry alex
ID #108112
Jan 20th 2012 Guest
I did revenge and when i call kate she dont answer?
ID #107578
Jan 8th 2012 Guest
who is better to go out with? KIKI OR ALEX?
ID #103968
Jan 5th 2012 Guest
How do you go to lovermeet on the gaame i hate michel i want to get rid of her...or if anyone knows how to kill herr??
ID #102986
Dec 31st 2011 Guest
ok, i just screwed up one of my dates,now all 3 women hate me, i didnt save at all, how do i go on a date???
ID #100915
Dec 24th 2011 Guest
I think you mean liberated woman not law chick, that's Kiki. But sorry man I can't find her add either
ID #98160
Dec 24th 2011 Guest
How do you unlock nicer clothes that aren't from the Russian shop?
And whenever I go to find 'lawchick' (alex) on craplist it doesn't come up with her just other people?
ID #98158
Feb 12th 2016 Guest
How do you get girls in Russia because I seen this from there
ID #634769
Dec 14th 2011 Guest
okay dawayne or playboy
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Oct 14th 2011 Guest
if alex breaks up with u how do u get her back n if u didnt save the game till after she broke up wit u ??
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Sep 21st 2011 JEGO24
you actually get to marry somebody, other than roman marrying mallorie?
ID #75796
Aug 27th 2011 Guest
i've just asked out carmen and i dumped kiki cuz i thought u couldnt marry her so buttt i want to date alex but she ont reply
ID #70563
Aug 20th 2011 Guest
No kate dies
ID #68798
Aug 18th 2011 Guest
wait so if you get revenge, kate still dates you?
ID #68194
Aug 16th 2011 Guest
yea i did the deal and it was sad to see roman die. the money isn't worth it. luckily i saved it twice so i got my cousin back lol.
ID #67658
Aug 15th 2011 Guest
How do you mary alex ? Is it possible
ID #67528
Jul 25th 2011 Guest
how do i go to the dating place. and what do i do to get different girls.
ID #61198
Jul 23rd 2011 Guest
where is the place that alex lives o the map
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Jul 14th 2011 RockBandMaster
michelle is a cop watching you on a mission you get ellizabethas coke back and she confronts you and tells you to hand it over and she has snipers everywhere so you have to and little jacob will be there to
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