Grand Theft Auto 4 Walkthrough and Guide

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Grand Theft Auto 4 Guide - Dating

As you progress through the story, Niko will be able to wine and dine with a number of Liberty City women. Dating is much like hanging out with friends in that each girl has their own preferable activities. Conversely though, Niko's choice of wardrobe and vehicular transport will also affect whether or not his date has a good time.

Both Michelle and Kate like Niko for who he is, so wearing something upscale (i.e., anything not from the Russian clothes store) and showing up in a flashy ride is typically to be avoided when dealing with either of them. Since Kate and Michelle are fairly easy to please and only pertain to the storyline, they won't be covered here.

There are three other girls that Niko can meet and date via the and websites. Dating these girls is not a requirement to attain the 100% game completion stat, however each has a special ability that is unlocked once they like you enough. This feature is available after the “Out of the Closet” mission in Brucie's mission line.

After requesting a date, you'll have to wait awhile (a week or more) for a reply. The e-mail will contain a time and meeting place. Reply to the e-mail to trigger the appointment, and be sure to show up on time. After the initial date, you can then collect the girl's phone number so you can call and set up additional dates. As with friends, each girl is only awake for a certain number of hours, and calling them while they're sleeping or busy will negatively affect the relationship. After a couple of successful outings, “try your luck” when dropping the date off and if she accepts you will later get a phone call from her, unlocking the special ability.


Kiki can be dated via the Lovemeet website. Her online username is “LawChick.” Kiki is quite easy to please; she prefers clothes from the Russian shop and downscale cars. Her favorite activities are eating, bowling, darts, and pool. Do not take her drinking or to any shows. She is available from 6am to 2am.

Special Ability: Lower Wanted Level - Call Kiki to have her lower your current wanted level by three stars.


View Carmen's profile on the Lovemeet website, username “SoBoHo,” and request a date with her. She seems to like flashy clothes (from Perseus) and mid-level cars. Do not wear anything from the Russian clothes shop. Her favorite activities are drinking, going to shows (strip clubs included), and darts. She is awake between 1pm and 6am.

Special Ability: Health Boost - Call Carmen to restore some health.


Alex can be dated via the Crap List ( website. Check out the “women seeking men” section under CRAP personals, scroll down and (despite your better judgment) click on the “Party girl seeks man for NSA fun and blog material - 29 (Lancaster)” post. Click the “Contact Me” link to request a date. Alex only likes clothes from Perseus and upscale cars (Turismo, SuperGT, etc). She prefers expensive restaurants, shows (strip clubs included), darts, bowling and pool. She is available from 6am to 2am.

Special Ability: Perseus Discount - Get a 50% discount on clothes bought from Perseus.


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How do u have more then one girlfriend

Added 24th Nov 2015, ID #628092

i asked about a cheat code not for the story

Added 23rd Mar 2015, ID #532000

how to go into michelle's house

Added 28th Feb 2015, ID #522398

Really frick you

Added 28th Oct 2015, ID #620439

How do u go on love meet to get Kate

Added 18th Feb 2015, ID #517550

How do u dump Mitchell she does my head in!!??

Added 12th Feb 2015, ID #514972

I know kate im the the game im going to hunt u in your dream when I get out of jail hehehe

Added 1st Jan 2015, ID #494243


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Added 30th Dec 2014, ID #492958

The right thing to do is keep Roman cuz he is family an plus if Roman dies Kate blames you for it and doesn't dates you anymore. So keep your cousin let the girl go.

Added 21st Nov 2014, ID #474282

Michelle mean

Added 2nd Nov 2014, ID #466489

Mitchell dumps you and your a free man you can go out with who you want but Kate still calls me with a ghost which is weird because she's dead and I'm dating Alex

Added 2nd Nov 2014, ID #466488

GTA 4 is way better than GTA5. GTA5 is a giant waste of money and even less waste of time, because you will drop the game within 10 hours or less once you get to Spoiler:
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which takes at least 5 hours to complete. Trust me, save your money.

Added 9th Oct 2014, ID #456405

This game lame I like grand theft auto 5 better

Added 31st May 2014, ID #391815

Who is Mitch???

Added 27th Dec 2013, ID #334905

How do u marry Alex

Added 3rd Sep 2013, ID #308047

i dont think u can marry any1
u can only date

Added 14th Aug 2013, ID #304839

I think I'm going to do revenge. Kate never even really thinks of you as a boyfriend anyways. I think keeping Roman alive is better. He DID just get married and his wife is pregnant. Roman is also your cousin. So do revenge. You'll make plenty of money elsewhere. Family first.

Added 10th Aug 2013, ID #303998

hey guys i did the deal with dimitrie then with outt i think u shouldnt do it cuz then if u do then roman dies and his wife is havinng a baby and then the baby wont have a father so take my advice

Added 25th Jul 2013, ID #300253

i need help with those three girls after I finis killing D And P I don't know what to do now plus help me

Added 24th Jun 2013, ID #292474

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Added 26th Mar 2013, ID #267312

Thanks for the tips

Added 25th Jan 2013, ID #246268

i have mitch and i gonna date carmen should i kill mitch?

Added 2nd Jan 2013, ID #234637

How do you find Alex it doesn't have that link

Added 23rd Dec 2012, ID #227255

I just use cheats so I don't need any of them[color=red][/color]

Added 4th Oct 2012, ID #191303

How do i get kiki back after i ran her over

Added 25th Jun 2012, ID #156858

Can I date on Episodes from liberty City??

Added 22nd Jun 2012, ID #155554

what are the benefits of dating kiki ? (lawchick)

Added 26th May 2012, ID #145567

How do you go on your date with French tom

Added 13th Apr 2012, ID #132764

I tried to go on a date with Alex but I was late, now when I check nothing shows up. Any tips please.

Added 12th Apr 2012, ID #132651

If you kill dywane you lose all contact with playboy and he has beef with you for it. if you kill playboy you and dyane become friends and you get playboys house.

Added 7th Apr 2012, ID #130738

Save the game twice when you do the revenge/deal mission. That way you finish the story line two times. :D

Added 23rd Mar 2012, ID #125376

if you do reaving kate dies but if she calls you its is her ghost[color=blue]

Added 16th Feb 2012, ID #115542

How do I date alex

Added 5th Feb 2012, ID #112363

SoHoe and LawChick are datable on the internet in the internet cafe. Where does Sohoe live? I cant get there in time.

Added 27th Jan 2012, ID #109800

how do i marry alex

Added 21st Jan 2012, ID #108112

I did revenge and when i call kate she dont answer?

Added 20th Jan 2012, ID #107578

who is better to go out with? KIKI OR ALEX?

Added 8th Jan 2012, ID #103968

How do you go to lovermeet on the gaame i hate michel i want to get rid of her...or if anyone knows how to kill herr??

Added 5th Jan 2012, ID #102986

ok, i just screwed up one of my dates,now all 3 women hate me, i didnt save at all, how do i go on a date???

Added 31st Dec 2011, ID #100915

I think you mean liberated woman not law chick, that's Kiki. But sorry man I can't find her add either

Added 24th Dec 2011, ID #98160

How do you unlock nicer clothes that aren't from the Russian shop?
And whenever I go to find 'lawchick' (alex) on craplist it doesn't come up with her just other people?

Added 24th Dec 2011, ID #98158

okay dawayne or playboy

Added 14th Dec 2011, ID #95096

if alex breaks up with u how do u get her back n if u didnt save the game till after she broke up wit u ??

Added 14th Oct 2011, ID #80274

you actually get to marry somebody, other than roman marrying mallorie?

Added 21st Sep 2011, ID #75796

i've just asked out carmen and i dumped kiki cuz i thought u couldnt marry her so buttt i want to date alex but she ont reply

Added 27th Aug 2011, ID #70563

No kate dies

Added 20th Aug 2011, ID #68798

wait so if you get revenge, kate still dates you?

Added 18th Aug 2011, ID #68194

yea i did the deal and it was sad to see roman die. the money isn't worth it. luckily i saved it twice so i got my cousin back lol.

Added 16th Aug 2011, ID #67658

How do you mary alex ? Is it possible

Added 15th Aug 2011, ID #67528

who should i take lawchick, Alex or carmen?

Added 6th Aug 2011, ID #64704

how do i go to the dating place. and what do i do to get different girls.

Added 25th Jul 2011, ID #61198