One of my sims died unexpectedly yesterday in my Sims 2 game. Everyone keeps stopping to mourn over it. They are having difficulty getting anything else accomplished. The mourning has gone on "long enough"; considering how fast time moves in this game. The game tells me to click on the urn and select smash, and the Sim will feel better? I click on the urn the only selection I get is "mourn". Which is what they don't need. How do I get rid of it, they can get on with their lives. I can't even pick it up or delete it?