My own sims and my lover live in two different houses. I had them fall in love but now I want them to marry. Here is my problem: I want them both to live in MY house cause I renovated it (my lover's house is not even worthy of being called a house). Now how do I have to do this? Do I have to ask my lover to move in together or to marry me so he moves in with me or doesn't that matter?
(Because last time I got to sims marry each other the male accidentally took over de female's last name. That's how I learned that is DOES MATTER who asks whom to move in/to marry)