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How do I move in with my wife?

BEASTBOY687 asks:
Sep 17th 2011, ID #220318

Question for The Sims 3

How do I move in with my wife? I've been trying for the longest but still haven't fiGured it out.


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Guest answered: Added 23rd Sep 2011, ID #442530

Lol I've been trying to move in with my husband For ever... But Honestly Idk.. It's Kinda weird.. I figured that they will just automatically move in once they are married but nope.. And I even have a empty slot..... So it's weird

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Guest said: 26th Mar 2016 | REPORT
How do u do it on iPhone
Guest said: 10th Jun 2016 | REPORT
Ok so now how do u switch between all the Sims the switch button no longer works?
Guest said: 21st Jun 2016 | REPORT
It did not work
Guest said: 4th Aug 2017 | REPORT
You can't move in with your spouse they have to move in with you at your house because the game doesn't want you to pick a spouse just because of their house.
Guest answered: Added 18th Jan 2012, ID #474421

I believe it's an order issue. You have to move in first. If that is not the case it is along the lines of a couple of friendly interactions followed by a ask to move in interaction. Do this at your house for them to move in and I believe do it at the other sims house for you to move in there.


Guest answered: Added 18th Aug 2012, ID #533070

I am having the same probloms as it doest come up with ask to move in at their house only mine!!!

Guest answered: Added 23rd Jan 2013, ID #566497

First you got to have a baby that way they can live togather and then you can get married

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Guest said: 2nd Jun 2014 | REPORT
That isn't true because my something is married and she doesn't have kids with him
Guest answered: Added 18th Feb 2013, ID #571875

I dunno why I can't move in with heeeeeeemmmm!!! I tried the whole friendly interactions, doesnt show up. I tried doing it at his house, doesnt show up. Ive even tried friendly interactions while using the get lucky karma power =.=" please heeelp!

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Guest said: 3rd Apr 2015 | REPORT
I just moved a sim into my house they are marked and she was pregnant I only used loads of friendly things and she then moved in I could move into her house also
Guest answered: Added 12th Apr 2013, ID #582454

Help,I cannot figure it out...I tried being friendly 10000s if times urrrg it's on ps3

Guest answered: Added 9th Dec 2013, ID #610081

I've had the same issue at times. It has to do with how they get married. Once married, the system automatically has a pop-up about the households. There you can move people from your house to theirs - although they'll be erased anyway - and can move ppl from their house to yours. The spouses must stay together. There must be a glitch because whenever I have gotten married at a Wedding Party the Household pop-up doesn't come up. Try divorcing the person then re-marrying in a Private wedding. That's worked for me.

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Guest said: 31st Aug 2014 | REPORT
I have had the same trouble as you but I don't want to divorce them , my sim is pregnant and married what do I do help
Guest said: 1st Mar 2015 | REPORT
How do I get my husband to move in and how do I have a baby
Guest said: 27th Mar 2015 | REPORT
You have a baby by getting their romance level up and then click on the bed and it should say woohoo with and then click that and after that click on the bed again it shout say try for baby
Guest said: 17th May 2015 | REPORT
or if u play on xbox u can.. just click try for baby 3 watermelon = boy 5 waffles = girl
Guest answered: Added 24th Jan 2014, ID #615419

I have been asked to move in with the husband before I think you have to do a bunch of friendly interactions on their lot and they will eventually ask you.

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Guest said: 14th Mar 2015 | REPORT
It still didn't work :/
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Guest answered: Added 17th Apr 2014, ID #622552

For me I had to be socialable to get my husband to move in

Guest answered: Added 20th Jun 2015, ID #665000

I think you can only get her to move in with you, not the other way around. I think it's after marriage, but again, I'm not sure. After marriage, use friendly actions until the icon appears.

Guest answered: Added 31st Jul 2015, ID #667574

If you enable cheats then you can't get any achievements. Just do friendly interactions. All I had to do was ask how his day was and then "ask to move in" became an option.

Guest answered: Added 20th Jul 2016, ID #681824

I had a private marriage and it worked

Guest answered: Added 22nd Oct 2018, ID #699321

You have to LT-A on the person your marryed with


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