I have Elli at a red heart and she wont marry me. Everytime I show her the blue feather she says "Sorry, but I can't leave the Doctors side." I have everything off the T.V. Shopping network including the big bed and the power berry, but I think I missed her yellow heart event. Is it now impossible to marry her? Please give advice, tell me what to do. I want to marry Elli not one of the other girls, I've already been married to all of them in previous games,except Elli and Ann.