Mr.Clueless

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You don't need a cheat to get a cursed hammer. In the winter mine (I think), just go really deep, and start digging; you'll find it eventually. After that, you'll have to have it blessed, either by the pastor, or by using it so many times, or by having it in your invetory for so long. To befriend the old lady, just give her flowers every day, and she'll like you in no time.