how do i find

Well you can bye the Snowflake flower at the flea market also you can grow it in the winter time.You can get the red honey from a red flower tuna if you have from the first gull island during spring,fall,and winter or at the cream beach if you have a level 4 or 5 rod. The perfect honeydew from the seed store or you can grow it only in the summer and the lapis lazuli you can get it if you go to the mine get a blue wonderful and refine it by that one lady who works with the blacksmith. I hope this helps

**Note**
The Lapis Luzi only works when being refined if it has 1 sparkle on it I beileve. ^.^ Hope I helped

I actually just found the Lapiz Luzi on the beach on the northern corner near Yolanda's house on my first week of the game then I kept it in my toolbox at home xD