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My Sims will not be romantic with each other, please help!

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My Sims will not be romantic with each other, please help!

I'm nearly level 11 and I have 8 sims. I can only get my sims to become best friends but when I get to the best friend level it not let me romance each other. I'I've tried it with all my sims none of them can be romantic. I've searched the web and I can't find anything. I'm also stuck on a mission where you have to make to sims be romantic. It's frustrating because I can't unlock the park or have children.

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Maliahjones answered:

You might have to add another person then have them be romantic with someone.

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Guest said: 15th Apr 2018 | REPORT
Guest said: 8th Jul 2018 | REPORT
Me too
Guest said: 26th Jul 2018 | REPORT
I don’t even know how they go to the same place 😂
Guest said: 25th Jan 2021 | REPORT
did yall comple love is in the air
Guest answered:

Same with me!! I don't know what to do... I had this game before and I was level 19 and was married and had Children ten I started again and I can't be romantic :(

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Guest said: 8th Jan 2018 | REPORT
I can’t press ‘be romantic’ so how do I do the quest ‘Love is in the air’ !?!?
Guest said: 17th Jan 2018 | REPORT
Ahh same here
Guest said: 24th Jan 2018 | REPORT
You have to complete the quest you are currently on before the love is in the air quest will unlock.
Guest said: 11th Apr 2018 | REPORT
I can't do it either
snofuzzy answered:

Being romantic is different than being friends. Do you have the option to Dance? If you do it is a romantic option as well as be romantic. I am not sure what level romance unlocks I believe it is early in the game but, there are so many glitches who can really say.

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Guest said: 6th Feb 2017 | REPORT
I don't even have the love is in the air quest and I am level 8
Guest said: 31st Jul 2017 | REPORT
Omg exact same!!!!!HELP!
Guest said: 10th Sep 2017 | REPORT
U have to tap them then tap romance
Guest said: 30th Nov 2017 | REPORT
Duh we know that but it’s not working
Guest answered:

It's the same with my Sims. I was on level 37 and started again but now they can't be romantic. I think it is to do with the new update or something. It is quite annoying. You can still do All this on sims 3 though.

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Guest said: 6th Aug 2016 | REPORT
Like I have them living together but they won't be romantic 😢😭
Guest said: 20th May 2017 | REPORT
Me tooo
Guest said: 23rd May 2017 | REPORT
Pls someone help
Guest said: 10th Jan 2018 | REPORT
I am having the same problem😭😭
Guest answered:

Same with me also I am level 56 I have 32 couples and 13 teens by mistake my brother restarted but I restored it then I want to make 33rd couple but there is no romantic option

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Guest said: 4th Jan 2017 | REPORT
me too..😤
Guest said: 10th Apr 2017 | REPORT
Keep saying that you have to be a level seven or eight to be romantic but I have a found it and I'm on level seven help😡😤😤👎😫😫
Guest said: 27th May 2018 | REPORT
Why does there have to be quests in between being romantic. They love each other so why can’t they be together
Guest said: 6th Jan 2022 | REPORT
You have to complete the quest you are on now, to get to it
Guest answered:

My Sims game won't let me be romantic I don't know why please help

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Guest said: 20th Apr 2015 | REPORT
Ok my sims is doing same but if you restart it it might help !?
Guest answered:

Well if you have a PC it should be easy but iPad iPod electronic I don't know but on PC fill up the relationship Bar on the top and then try but if your human does not have romantic trait or hopeless romantic it will be really hard

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Guest said: 20th Oct 2015 | REPORT
You ve to continue to complain to each other trust me
Guest said: 5th Apr 2016 | REPORT
Your wrong. I did complain and it bumps you down a level.
Guest said: 19th Jan 2017 | REPORT
You need someone your SIM never talked to before then you have to complete love is in the air the be romantic
Guest said: 5th Apr 2017 | REPORT
You are almost both write complain till u are alomost to the end of the best friend don't get to the end or u will go down a friend ship
Guest answered:

Dames I can't be romantic what I did was ... I made them best friends and then made the male have a rich lather but the flirt option wasn't available please help Thanks(:

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Guest said: 18th Oct 2014 | REPORT
Same with me :(
Guest said: 28th Mar 2015 | REPORT
me too it says the you need the love is in the air but I never got it I'm Hopeless I really wanna play but I don't wanna pay money for a diff version ya no? I just wanna play the game someone please contact the game makers....
Guest said: 18th Aug 2016 | REPORT
Me too ! I'm on level 10 and can't get reman tic because I should of done in level 7
Guest said: 14th Jan 2018 | REPORT
I am on level 11 and still no romantic
Guest answered:

They cannot be romantic until you complete the Quests because it becomes a Quest and they allow your Sims to begin being romantic

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Guest said: 19th Apr 2015 | REPORT
Same I keep trying to get the love is in the air quest by completing other quests but it won't let me😤
Guest said: 7th Jun 2015 | REPORT
You need to complete money grows on trees first, then you can access it.
Guest said: 16th Jul 2015 | REPORT
Go to google,type in your problem and click on the girl who games it's kinda helpful 😀😉
Guest said: 12th Mar 2017 | REPORT
I will never have a baby..
Guest answered:

If you go to the Quest's you should see that it says that there are 2 Quests in queue then scroll through the quest and it says the steps you need to take to be romantic and get married and all that stuff hope this helps.

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Guest said: 10th Oct 2015 | REPORT
I am stuck too its too hard to make them romantic! i cant find the task love in the air!!!!!!
Guest said: 26th Nov 2015 | REPORT
How do I finish money goes on the tree the quest first
Guest said: 9th May 2016 | REPORT
Plant carrots (5min) Watch documenary (54min) double shot of coffee (1min)
Hope this helped☺
Guest said: 13th Aug 2016 | REPORT
That option has never been available to me
Guest answered:

You Go down to your active Quests, click that, it will show what you have to do, on of them, depending on how many you have, it will have a square box and say 2 in queue or 3 depends on how many quests you have waiting, click that box and it will show your pending quests. In that list should be the Love Is In The Air Quest. So all you have to do is complete one quest at a time. Glad to help, and hoping this helps! ;)

Guest answered:

Hey guys! I know how to Love Is In The Air Quest. First you must complete the first quest before money grows on tree quest, then after that you must complete the money grows on tree then after that the love is in the air quest will pop up on your screen. I hope this can help you

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Guest said: 17th Jun 2019 | REPORT
Thank you
Guest answered:

I am at level 7 my Sims are romantic some are starting to get married. All, you have to do is complete the Love Is In The Air. Then if that doesn't work make the sims sleep in bed together. The second idea I've heard works idk if it's true.

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Guest said: 9th May 2016 | REPORT
How do you complete love is in the air?
Guest answered:

So I think I may have figured it out if you haven't already but I've been stuck on trying to get my Sims to flirt and be romantic and I was reading the answer to you're question and I tried what he said and it's working! Be rude to them don't complain cause it brought mine down but by being rude you're best friend thing will go up! Hopefully this works for you! Smile

jupitersparks answered:

I FIGURED IT OUT!!!!!!! You have to complete all the Quests in order!!! The app will tell you what to do... I had to cook bacon and eggs, then buy a toaster, then make burgers, then invite people over... And so and so on until I completed the Cooking Quest and then grow money quest! After you finish the money quest, you start the romantic quest.It's kind of a pain, but you can fast forward the tasks that take a long time (such as 'watch a documentary') using lifestyle points! I completed the cooking quest and the money quest in 1 hour, so don't worry, it won't take forever! Just keep going and completing the tasks in the quests. Good luck!

Guest answered:

If you constantly have them be complaining to each other they will reach the relationship stage! I had the same question and I pressed everything I could and it ended up working if they complain to each other. If you have any other questions as me!!!!!

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Guest said: 17th Jun 2017 | REPORT
how about money growsnin trees
Guest answered:

I am having the same problem and they've been stuck on bffs for a long time

Guest answered:

Me too it's so hard I wasted most of my time :(

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Guest said: 16th Sep 2017 | REPORT
Me too!
Guest answered:

I'm having the same problem but I'm on level 7 and can't find the Love Is In The Air Quest. Can you help me? I don't know is what to do to get to the quest.

Guest answered:

You have to make sure all your Houses are occupied before attempting a new relationship. If you move a sim in with another to be in a relationship make sure there's another sim created in the old house. If your houses are full and you still have this problem it's because you have the max number of Sims for your Towns level and have to build more buildings in town.

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Charity Chappo answered:

I am on level 19 and you need to get to the Quest for married life to be romantic

Guest answered:

Maybe you have too many people

Guest answered:

SO I finally figured it out. I had two female Sims be bestfriend they both found their other half and got married then had babies now one of them had a girl and the other had a boy so I thought it was the perfect story line to have their kids fall inlove when they get older. When they were kids they were bestfriends/partner in crime. And when they were teens I tried making them flirt but it just didnt work they kept rejecting each other. Eventually they both became flirty and when I made them flirt with each other it worked. SO I recommend making them both flirty by taking a steamy showerr and try small by "asking a risque question" then flirt start small. Hoped this helped!

Guest answered:

To be romantic, you have to unlock the Quest 'Love Is In The Air'. After you complete the Quests 'Bread Winner' and 'Money grows on tree's you can start the love quest.

Guest answered:

If you complete the love Quest on the island then complete the money on the tree quest the love in the air quest becomes available

Guest answered:

It may be cause you have not finished the Quest to get married

Guest answered:

This will probably be no help to you anymore, but here’s an answer for any new people asking. What I had to do was abandon one of them. Make them move in so you don’t have to buy a new plot. Just look at the sim you want to get rid of in closet and remember details. Then abandon them by clicking the red no sign next to their name. Then recreate them and make their first interaction to the other sim Romance. Hope this helps. It what I did.

Guest answered:

Hi! My Sims are doing this to but you can use those golden point thingys if your really desperate or try being romantic in a Park or a specialist work place! Hope this helps!!!


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