How in the heck do you get rid of reflect?

Reflect?

Make sure youre not wearing an armour or an item that has the power of reflect in it. Because if you are, no spell or item will take it away!
Reflect wears off quickly enough but like I said if youre wearing an armour or item it wont.

Dispel is what you use to get rid of Reflect if an enemy has it.

To remove reflect you need to use the spell Dispel. It's the same for any of the protective buffs.

Well dispell is the magic spell for getting rid of it.if you mean your character always has reflect on it might be because you have an item equipped that automatically gives the reflect status

It's kinda a good thing to have reflect equipped unless your lookin to cast hatse protect etc. On the person. If an enemy has it on then use dispel.if you want it off you're character and you tried everything then take off you're arm if it's mirror mail, because it equips reflect.

This is the only way I have found that works ("just use Dispel" is not helpful. It is not that simple). First, turn off the gambits for all active allies, so they will stop all actions. Then remove the effected ally from the active party. After that, any active member with Dispel can cast it on the "reflected" ally. Then he/she can rejoin the active party, sans reflect. For some reason it will only let you cast it on inactive party members. This is a seriously annoying design flaw in this otherwise great game.