Here are the locations and the special abilitie requierments.
It is on the Djose highroad. You can't miss it in the uniform search mission in chapter 2.
Break hp limit and Break damage limit are only avalible after you get the key items Aurora rain and Twilight Rain in chapter 5.
This Special Dressphere is located in the Bikanek desert. You will not miss it in the water we doing here? Mission in chapter 2.
Break Hp and Break DMG limit after you have collected the key items MAchina Reactor and Machina Booster in chapter 5. This applies to the same abilities of Smasher-l and Smasher-r
This dressphere is located in the Macalania Woods in chapter 1 or 2. Go to the spring and talk to Tromell he will eventually give you the dressphere after you talk to him 4 times.
Break HP limit and Break Damage limit will only appear in the ability list when you recieve the key items Corpus Invictus and Victor Primorisin chapter 5. This also applies to same abilities of Sinistral Wing aswell as Dextral Wing.
I hope this helps with t he completion of your game.