Romantic actions in sims freeplay

Guest asks: Added Dec 5th 2013, ID #324148

Romantic actions in sims freeplay

I have two sims that are best friends and I am attempting to make them form a romantic relationship. However, the only interactions that appear are chest bump, complain, be nice, be funny and be rude. How do I get the romantic options to appear?
Sorry if this is a stupid question but I can't work it out as I can't get the best friend metre to increase :P and get
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Guest answered:
Added 12th Dec 2013, ID #610319
Well I'm not sure but I think you have to get one of the sims to have a rich lather in the shower first then a "flirt"option will be available .. And if this doesnt work then I think you shoul turn the sims to aqquaintances first by doing rude things to them... Then have a rich lather then the flirt option will pop ... Hope this helped.
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Guest said: 18th Apr 2015 | REPORT
What level is the Mary and the romantic?
Guest said: 23rd Apr 2015 | REPORT
I think the level is 8 if that's wrong then maybe 9 it's complicated
Guest said: 26th Apr 2015 | REPORT
It's 7
Guest said: 27th Apr 2015 | REPORT
I think when it became best friends they cannot marry i think only i dont sure
lacib2 answered:
Added 14th Dec 2013, ID #610615
Please help. Dont know what I am doing wrong but I can not get past best friends. No romantic interaction will appear and the move in interaction did not appear either! Do you have to be a certain level? Can't find info on this anywhere.

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Guest said: 14th Apr 2015 | REPORT
I'm being rude and my best friend is going up
Guest said: 18th Apr 2015 | REPORT
It is really going down The same thing happened to me but your sims become worse freinds
Guest said: 27th Apr 2015 | REPORT
Mine says slow down hot shot too
Guest said: 27th Apr 2015 | REPORT
You have to finish the love is in theair auest to make your sims marry each otherbecuase mine is already best friends and their is a be romantic interaction
chelsi101 answered:
Added 15th Dec 2013, ID #610688
Hey I had the same problem and like you I couldn't find an answer anywhere. I finished the goal of getting 4 sims to dance at the same time, and a marriage quest came up! So to unlock romance you have to do a quest now.

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Guest said: 14th Feb 2015 | REPORT
You have to pairs of sims dancing at the same time I think...
Guest said: 14th Apr 2015 | REPORT
Click here to comment on this answer Klik her for at kommentere dette svar
Guest said: 19th Apr 2015 | REPORT
How do i get them to dance? And the rich lather didnt do anything
Guest said: 25th Apr 2015 | REPORT
I need help on the romantic to I have gotten there before but I deleted the game and I don't remember
But I think u have to spend time together and look online more i think
Guest answered:
Added 23rd Dec 2013, ID #611605
Like chelsi101 said, you have to wait until you are level 6 to unlock a new questline now. This allows you to be able to propose marriage, and if you do it in 48 hours then you unlock the bride and groom outfits
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Guest said: 9th Feb 2014 | REPORT
It's lvl 10
Guest said: 25th Feb 2014 | REPORT
Omg don't! The complaining does nothing. You have to be at a certain level (I think level 10)
He's being a troll :(
Don complain or be rude on sims
It will make their friendship worse
Guest said: 3rd May 2014 | REPORT
I'm on level 6 and it won't let me propose
Guest said: 21st Aug 2014 | REPORT
no to make your relationship better from best friends you have to be rude and complain
Guest answered:
Added 14th Jan 2014, ID #614471
I am in the same boat as you guys, it's funny because ever since I updated the game I can't be "romantic" with anyone. It's beginning to annoy me, and I love sims. I'm level 5 and my sims are best friends, but I only have the options to friendly and be rude etc. Need help please x
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Guest said: 13th Aug 2014 | REPORT
How do. U take a rich lather?
Guest said: 6th Feb 2015 | REPORT
I tried rich lather and it didn't work at ALL. It's beginning to bug me, I want my sims to marry, but I can't! Someone please help!
Guest said: 16th Apr 2015 | REPORT
What's the rich lather
Guest said: 19th Apr 2015 | REPORT
It is a 15 minute shower
ZombieBatman answered:
Added 22nd Jan 2014, ID #615202
Okay so since one can give a straight answer you have to wait until you get the quest RICH LATHER IN SHOWER you don't have to be rude just wait for this quest have them take a shower RICH LATHER option takes 15 mins right after a flirt option will pop up I didn't get this quest until half way to level 8 make sure you do your goals so you will get it faster hope this helps
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Guest said: 22nd Jan 2014 | REPORT
I have That quest but i cant flirt or be romantic:(
Guest said: 29th Mar 2014 | REPORT
You have to be level 6
Guest answered:
Added 1st Feb 2014, ID #616132
Um I have the same problem as the other person about the best friend thing and trying to get them to be romantic to each other apparently I had sims free play before and everything worked out fine because it was an old version of sims free play but then I deleted to but then after a long while I wanted it back so I downloaded it but this time they became best friends with each other but now I can't even find "be romantic" it never said that once when I got the sims freeplay back so I was wondering if anyone knows how to find it
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Brandon rules said: 25th May 2014 | REPORT
I really need help i have 3 sims im level 5 and i need help and my hot girl sim and my dude are best friends and im on the latest version i tried rich lather and nothing worked so can someone help me the best way im on the cupcake goal
cutepuffie2 said: 28th May 2014 | REPORT
You have to make your sims take a shower so click the rich lather opition. After that, you will get a reward from the quest. You will have the flirt opition and you can start you romance.
Guest said: 11th Aug 2014 | REPORT
I have the rich lather quest and I have 4 Sims and the level is 6.....what I have to do to get the romance option......plz helppppppp
Guest said: 28th Sep 2014 | REPORT
Cutepuffie 2 I tried what u said it didn't work still came up with slow down hot stuff help
Guest answered:
Added 5th Feb 2014, ID #616524
All you guys are not reading the quest correctly you need your sims to be showered Rich of lather or whatever the quest is called just make your sim take a shower it would take 15 minutes
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Guest said: 18th Feb 2014 | REPORT
Best song ever do you know one direction
Guest said: 26th Feb 2014 | REPORT
In my sims freeplay same problem is there the quest is to get marry but they don't have the option of romantic
Guest said: 16th Sep 2014 | REPORT
Guest said: 15th Feb 2015 | REPORT
This makes 0 sense
Guest answered:
Added 16th Feb 2014, ID #617339
I know how. You have to reach around level 5 and then it will eventually come up
With something saying about sims getting romantic then it will tell you to have a rich
Lather then you can be romantic. But make sure when you tech level five that you
Have two sims that are best friends
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Guest said: 23rd Feb 2014 | REPORT
Just do shower rich lather then get 2 sims in the same house then the flirt will show up
Guest said: 11th Apr 2015 | REPORT
My 2 are best friends and I have had a rich lather and when I press the be romantic button it says hold hot shot you have complete the quest love is in the air.

Guest said: 27th Apr 2015 | REPORT
Okay you have to finish the quest your having now until your reach that quest
Guest answered:
Added 23rd Feb 2014, ID #618099
Okay so I reached level 6 and am trying to get the coffee machine I clicked on the shower and rich lather appeared. The two sims are on best friends status. I honestly hope this helps but before I was in the same situation what's worse I sent the male off to work
Guest answered:
Added 23rd Feb 2014, ID #618130
People have been giving you incomplete answers and a lot of mixed messages. (Never good for a relationship! ;) If you catch my drift)

Here is how you get two Sims to start a romantic relationship:

The option will not become available until the game presents you with your first quest. A quest is like a series of tasks that you have to get through to complete.

This option will only become available after you have completed all tasks up to getting a fourth Sim, buying a 2star stereo, and having all four Sims dance together. After you do this (it's very easy just keep working through the tasks one by one) you will be asked to build another business in the town map.

After you do this, you'll get a notification telling you the first quest is to start a romance, and the first task to complete this quest is for a Sim to have a rich lather shower. After that, just keep doing the tasks and quests as they come. Be patient, you'll get there eventually.

Rich lather will NOT work until you are presented with the quest.
It does NOT matter what level you are on.
You can NOT begin a relationship without completing all the tasks leading up to the quest.

Relationship actions will be in PURPLE. Green is for friendship and red is for enemies.

That's it, good luck!
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Lou_grace1127 said: 19th Feb 2015 | REPORT
I have the quest loves in the air but I am not getting any steps to help me do this quest?
Guest answered:
Added 6th Apr 2014, ID #621626
We'll I'm level 7 and I am so annoyed at this because they say you can do it and then your at the right level then you can't do anything and just like the first comment said like about rich lather but they all back down

Luke.Helps answered:
Added 20th Apr 2014, ID #622692
To be romantic you have to be level 6 and you need to complete a quest as it says 'Love is in the air' so you have to lather in shower!!!
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Guest said: 26th Feb 2015 | REPORT
I Am Like Level 8 And I Still Didn't Get the Quest What do I Do?
Guest said: 1st Apr 2015 | REPORT
yea i need to know
Guest answered:
Added 27th Apr 2014, ID #623330
When you get to the love is in the air quest, even if you took a rich lather shower you HAVE to do it again. Then you can flirt!

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Guest said: 26th Sep 2014 | REPORT
I done lathering 5 times.I can't flirt.
Guest answered:
Added 13th May 2014, ID #624467
I am trying the same thing! That's exactly what is happening to me. >=( how do I get them to be a frigging couple!! Please help me to with this.
Guest answered:
Added 20th Jun 2014, ID #629189
You have to keep being nice to people, and then you'll get some more romantic options. Or a quest, that's what I've heard.
Guest answered:
Added 13th Jul 2014, ID #632561
Yeah I'm on level 8 and it comes up with 'Be romantic' but it won't let my sims be romantic until I do this quest thing called 'love is in the air' unlocked at level 6, but I've already got through level 6 and I don't remember a quest like that, please help me I really want them to start going out!!!
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Guest said: 24th Dec 2014 | REPORT
Yaa I also want to know about it
Guest said: 7th Feb 2015 | REPORT
Yea, is that a game glitch or sum? Really want to know what I can do....
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Guest said: 7th Mar 2015 | REPORT
Same here
Guest answered:
Added 18th Aug 2014, ID #636932
Do I have to be on level 6? Is it okay if I'm on level 7?

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Guest said: 20th Oct 2014 | REPORT
Guest answered:
Added 21st Aug 2014, ID #637240
I have got my sims to be romantic loads of times but the get married option still isn't available. What should I do?
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cutepuffie2 said: 14th Dec 2014 | REPORT
Did you make one of your sims propose to the other sim? Maybe that's why...
Guest answered:
Added 7th Sep 2014, ID #638972
Make the Sims complain to each other. Believe it or not but it increases the bar very quickly and you can move past best friends
Guest answered:
Added 27th Nov 2014, ID #647786
I am level 8 and my sims are still not romantic yet

Guest answered:
Added 9th Dec 2014, ID #648887
You flirt by first having one Sim in the shower getting rich lathered and then you invite another Sim to the house. You then go over to the other Sim and click on them. It will have the options for talking, there will be a flirt one, just click on it and you will flirt!
Guest answered:
Added 28th Jan 2015, ID #654354
I know this is going to sound crazy but I had my sims on best friends and they weren't moving up I go kind of annoyed so I made them complain and to my surprise they moved up so I kept doing that and it worked
Guest answered:
Added 14th Feb 2015, ID #655626
You have to be on level six then a thing will pop up that says love is in the air do what it says and you will get married

Guest answered:
Added 15th Feb 2015, ID #655693
Easy you be a person as 2 sims and the person your on has to have a crystal over his and then click a female. Then tap on romantic
Guest answered:
Added 21st Feb 2015, ID #656279
All you do is finish the cooking test then the money grows on trees, then the quest 'Love in The Air' quest will pop up and just follow what they tell you to do
Guest answered:
Added 24th Feb 2015, ID #656540
To answer everyone's question to why you can't get your sims to be romantic. If when you started your game and did not go step by step with each task it gives you then you will not unlock the romantic options. You have to do every step and goal first before you can get this option
Guest answered:
Added 21st Mar 2015, ID #658454
I had the same problem but what you have to do is start the love is in the air quest available at level 6. While your completing it you will get more options that will allow them to kiss on the hand and be romantic and if you do those actions then they will start a relationship.😃
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Guest said: 25th Apr 2015 | REPORT
i need help a lot

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